I’d like to share a life-changing habit that grows my profits, and improves every area of my life.
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It’s called “making decisions". This is something I learned from Awaken The Giant Within by Tony Robbins over twenty years ago.

The TLDR. To do the impossible, I make decisions. But not like…*normal* decisions.

The way Tony talked about decisions in his book caused a click for me. He said “most people treat decisions like negotiations, but a decision is when you cut off all other options.”

I really got it. And I started practicing this. Meaning, when I make a decision, it’s DONE.

Here’s some of the best decisions I’ve made 👇

No alchohol 🍷

I haven’t had a sip since I was 21. I’ve never once regretted this choice, never feel like I’m missing out. I can’t stand the way alcohol makes me feel, so I don’t drink.

Though I could “enjoy” a glass if I wanted to, I prefer the hard line in the sand of just simply not drinking.

The Daily Page

Every day, for the last 16 years without fail, I write at least one page. I don’t negotiate with myself. I sit my butt in the chair and write.

This practice has helped me to grow a highly profitable online business, understand myself, reduce stress, and get the work done.

To give you an idea of the magic of the Daily Page, here's the fruits of my 2025 writing practice alone.

👆 That's a three inch stack of training materials, frameworks, workbooks etc.

If you’re overwhelmed about your online business, just get a pen and start a daily page practice. You will be blown away at how much you accomplish each year.
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​Hate writing? Just speak into your phone and use a transcription app while you walk. That counts too. The key is to carve out a little time to get clear about your ideas!

Online Business Success

The decision 👉 Having a highly profitable online business that I love. This was a decision I made many years ago. It was a black and white choice.

It continues to be a black and white choice. I don’t ever “hope” my business grows, or “hope” things work out.

I decide. Every single morning for 16 years, I work from that definite decision. And that decision pays off.

Here’s what I've learned though... Decisions only work for things I ACTUALLY WANT. My business success is one of those things.

This isn't "easy" for anyone. But the hard parts aren't a big deal when you ACTUALLY WANT THIS.

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Caveat....Decision Only Work When You WANT it

There’s no amount of willpower that will make me pursue things I “kinda want”.
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*Still can’t do the splits, despite kinda wanting to for many years*

I don’t make a decision about a thing unless I know, deep down in my SOUL that I ACTUALLY WANT the thing or the results of that thing.

Then, when I decide. This means a flip has switched and it’s as good as done.

If there’s something you’ve been wanting for a long time, and you KNOW it’s a soul-level want, let today be the day you decide. *Cue sword cutting off all other options* 🗡️

🩵,
Brenda

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